The key moments of conflict and resolution between Gornick and her mother are numerous, reflecting the complex and intense relationship they share. One significant conflict occurs when Gornick's mother publicly declares her daughter's dislike for her, causing embarrassment and tension. Resolution comes when Gornick stands up for herself, asserting her autonomy and the importance of her own feelings.
Another pivotal moment is when Gornick's mother criticizes a book Gornick gave her, leading to a heated argument. Gornick's calm response and the subsequent realization that her mother's criticism stemmed from her own insecurities allow for a moment of mutual understanding and empathy.
These moments contribute to the book's themes of identity, independence, and the struggle for self-discovery. They illustrate the ongoing struggle between mother and daughter to understand each other and forge their own paths. The conflicts and resolutions highlight the emotional complexity of their relationship, emphasizing the importance of individuality and the search for personal truth.